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Death
is one of life's greatest quandaries. It represents mankind's sternest
challenge. Indeed death is a great leveller, putting every member
of the human race on exactly the same footing. Death throws up myriads
of questions and arouses just as many fears. Indeed it can be truly
said of death, there are more questions than answers.
Speaking
as one who is now 58, with my wife working in a hospice and as a
natural consequence of getting older, now attending more funerals,
I am of the strong opinion that the subject of death needs to be
brought back on to life's agenda for discussion. It is a subject
that is still taboo in many people's lives - a definite no go area
for discussion. However if we are all faced with the prospect of
death (as we are) then should we not be talking about it and trying
to find a way forward on the many questions that death throws up?
Some
who have suffered a lot may look upon death as a merciful release,
while others see it as a doorway into an even greater hell. Some
say death is the absolute end of things, whilst others say it is
a whole new beginning. Thousands of religions, cults and sects have
their own views on this particular subject, but surely there must
be a definitive answer to the question "What happens to us
after death?" Billions of pounds are spent every year in medical
research to try and help us lengthen our lives, but one day we will
all face death and I for one desperately wanted to know, is death
the end or just a beginning?
I mentioned
earlier that I am as I get older invariably attending more funerals
and the traditional Anglican funeral liturgy leads me to believe
that Jesus (who said of himself "I am the resurrection and
the life") will one day raise all people up to eternal life.
I have found this a bit puzzling because at those funerals this
blessing has been attributed to those who I know in their lifetime
were not religious and did not believe in Jesus, so do they get
raised up anyway. Then what about people of other faiths, agnostics
and atheists, will they be raised up by Jesus too?
It's
quite common in our society to have the attitude of turning a blind
eye, cocking a deaf ear, let's ignore it and hope it goes away or
bury our heads in the sand and pretend it doesn't exist. However
as we all know this is only postponing the inevitable for death
will not go away and it most definitely does exist, lying in wait
for us all. Can I make a plea therefore as a fellow sufferer of
the dying disease that we pool our resources, thoughts, insights,
experiences, beliefs and help each other to attack this question
that faces us all in an attempt to find some vital answers and help
alleviate some of those many fears and confusing thoughts that the
prospect of death throws up.
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